The Christian Family Center wishes to thank the brave men and women, and the families of those serving our Armed Forces, and remember those who gave their lives defending liberty.

CFL High Tidings

Happy Memorial Day!

CFL Trivia:

How many exterior steps does CFL have?

The grand total is 231 steps.  Thanks to all those who submitted their answers. 

Today’s Temperatures 

Air:  low 80°s Water: Mid 60°s

Christian Family Living Center

Retreats for all seasons of life:

  • Family Ministry
  • Spiritual Retreats
  • Quality Programming
  • Ocean Front Setting

Beach life is wonderful; but buildings can take a beating.  And the Christian Family is no exception.

In February, 2007 we began the considerable task of renovating the bedrooms and chapels of our Diocese of Raleigh building. This is not a cosmetic remodel – this is structural restoration.  After this building is completed we have to do the same for the bedrooms, kitchen and dining hall in our Egan-Rider building.  We will schedule restoration of this building during the winter months of 2007-08.

These capital improvements and expenditures of our beloved CFL Center could wait no longer. To wait would mean risking the very existence of the ministry on Topsail Island.

Our CFL Development Ministry has been working behind the scenes to launch our Steps In Faith Capital Campaign. We will be seeking out other sources of donations however we are depending on each of our CFL families.

We need your help.

You will be hearing from one of our many Steps In Faith leaders asking for a pledge.

We need to raise a huge amount of money: $250,000.   Can we do it? With God's help and your active involvement, all things are possible!

We are asking you to prayerfully consider giving a gift of $5,000, $2,000, $1,000 over a 2 year pledge period. Thank you for help to keep the CFL dream alive of bringing families closer to each other and to God. Your gift – no matter what size - will mean that CFL will be there in the future as a blessing for your family and for others.

Thank you,

Ted Galantowic, Chairman of the Board of Directors


Mother’s Day Retreat 2007

Dear CFL,

Our family had such a wonderful time on the Mothers Day retreat.  Thank you for the wonderful memories.

Again, the weekend was such a blessing to us and a little break for me.  I enjoyed the Christ centered activities with the other families.  --- Christine Lupienski

Dear CFL,

Thank you so much for being part of such a wonderful mother's day weekend retreat. My family and I had a wonderful and blessed time. When we got home my daughter Isabel was crying because "she didn't want to come home. She wanted to stay there forever". Both Luke and Isa miss Emily and Hannah.  Thanks so much and God bless you and all the staff at CFL. -- Susannah Carlin

Parenting Retreat: Applications available on line: www.ChristianFamilyLiving.org

  • June 13-15, 2007

This Christian-focused program based on Kevin Leman’s book “Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours.”  There will be activities for younger children to allow parents to attend discussion groups.

Exclusively for Military Families: Applications available on line: www.ChristianFamilyLiving.org

  • July 6-8, 2007 –– Surviving Deployment
  • August 10-12, 2007–– Surviving Re-Entry after Being Deployed

Presenters, experienced with active military challenges, will talk and people will have time to share ways of coping with the stressful time of deployment and re-entering back into family life after being deployed Special military rate:

$50 per family includes private bedroom for your family with private bath, all meals, and all materials.

July 1-6

Families of Hispanic Ancestry

July 8- 13

Open to all families

Jul 15-20

Single Parent Families

Jul 22-27

Open to all families

Jul 29-Aug 3

Open to all families

Aug 12-17

Open to all families

Aug 19-24

Open to all families

Aug 26-31

Families that Home school

Make your family Reservations Today! Ages 8 to adult: $220; Ages 2-7: $100. Under age 2 are free (the family max. is $980)

Family deposit is $475.00.  Applications available on line: www.ChristianFamilyLiving.org.


Attention:  Young Adults

Young Adult Retreats

Marianist LIFE is sponsoring FOUR Young Adult Retreats this summer for high school graduates aged 18-22. The retreats are open to college-aged students who were involved with Marianist LIFE, and to any young adult interested in a retreat experience and/or the Marianist family. These experiences are being offered for continued faith formation in the Marianist tradition.

  • Hawaii - June 15-16, 2007 Marianist House at Ewa Beach (Oahu)
  • California - June 22- 23, 2007 Presentation Center In Los Gatos, CA
  • Ohio - July 20-22, 2007 University of Dayton in Dayton OH
  • Texas - July 27-29, 2007St. Mary's University in San Antonio, TX
Registration is open until June 8, 2007. For more info and registration forms, please visit  www.marianist.com/youngadults

World Youth Day 2008

The Marianist Province hopes to have a representative group from the Province of the United States attend this very special event in Sydney Australia, July 15-21, 2008. In an effort to facilitate a Marianist presence at this worldwide event. The Office of Religious Life will be coordinating a package tour from Los Angeles July 11, to July 22, 2008.  If you are interested in joining this pilgrimage, and for financial assistance, please visit http://marianists.questtravelgroup.com/. The itinerary, registration for World Youth Day, costs and financial aid application can be downloaded from this Web site.


Recent Retreat at CFL

Newman Catholic Student Center at UNC-Chapel Hill students held a board meeting and planning session at CFL.

Sunrise Mass
Afternoon Fun
Photos courtesy of Jim Keck of CFL and Kelly Dunlop from the Newman Center

People in the News

Danny Malechuk spent many summers with his family at CFL and now he is making the news!

The Kernersville News reported this month:

“ALDI will soon open a store … off South Main Street (Kernersville, NC). The store is expected to open on June 21, according to ALDI District Manager Daniel Malechuk.”

“At ALDI, we offer only the most common size and we usually offer only one brand,” he said. “We move product very quickly because we sell only that brand. We can buy our items in bulk, which means we can sell items to our customers very cheaply.”

Malechuk pointed out several other cost-cutting measures ALDI employs.

“We work with a very lean staff and we encourage high productivity out of the people we hire,” he said. “We usually have eight or nine people working in any given store. Customer service is very important to us, so we offer higher wages and good benefits so we attract a higher caliber of people to work in our stores.”

In the United States, ALDI Inc. operates more than 800 stores in 26 states.


One Year Ago:

Memorial Day Weekend 2006 was the weekend to re-dedicate our middle building. Here are some photos of that milestone date:

Please have a safe and happy Memorial Day weekend!

The Christian Family Living Center
910-328-1584
www.ChristianFamilyLiving.org